4 Ways To Do V-day If You Don’t Have A Bae
So it’s Valentine’s Day and you have found yourself without a bae. I know relationships are the new wave and IG makes you feel like you’re behind but...know that you are living your best life and that being single is a blessing, not a curse. It gives you time to up your work game, help find your purpose, learn yourself, and deal with all of your issues so when your mate does come along you are ready. Being your best self will allow you to meet “Your One” when it’s the proper time for YOU. It will enable you to understand why no one else ever worked out and be happy that you established yourself before you found a mate. Make the most out of this V-Day by spending it doing one of the activities below. Thank me later!!
1. Galentine’s Day
I love celebrating Valentine’s day with my girls. We get to catch up, eat, and just enjoy each other. NO, this is not a man-bashing session quite the contrary we don’t even discuss guys we just enjoy each other. Get your best girls together and book a table at your favorite restaurant, plan a fun sleepover, go to an event in the city, or just throw a house party with some great wine, a cheese plate, and some good chocolate…Voila, Galentine’s day.
2. Spa / Self Care Day
V-day is the perfect day to love on yourself. Take the time to put on a good face mask, take a bath, and paint your nails. Or head to your favorite spa and get that new treatment they are advertising. It can be an early start to your 3 Ps of the weekend. (Prep, Pamper, and Plan).
High Maintenance Hack: Marie Kondo-ing your house definitely counts as a form of self-care. I’m just saying.
3. Stay-Cation
Who doesn’t love a stay-cation? If you have never done one you are missing out! I need you to go book a reservation before you finish this article. A stay-cation is a vacation in your hometown where you go stay at a hotel and veg out and live life. Or you stay at a hotel and tour your current city doing things you’ve never done and eating at places that you’ve never eaten. The idea is to save money if you are in desperate need of a vacay but can’t go out of state or the country. Stay-cations are so much fun. Who doesn’t want to stay in a hotel, order room service, and watch movies in peace dressed in a big furry white rob and a sheet mask? It sounds like heaven to me.
4. Head to your favorite restaurant or bar solo to meet a potential mate
If you are over the eat, pray, love solo journey of self-love and you are like I’m trying to meet my future tonight. Then girl head to your local sports bar or event and make sure you are dressed to the nine’s and your energy is on 1,000 and go get your man. Plenty of people are single and don’t want to be reminded of the fact they aren’t a pair or don’t believe in the day. For a lot of men & women, it’s just a regular Friday. The only difference is a lot more people will be out trying to see who else is single. (emoji looking eyes). Don’t say I didn’t get you hip.
Valentine’s Day could easily be just another day. Or it could be a day full of love, whichever you choose, make sure you make it count. I would love to hear how you plan to spend your v-day, comment below.
XOXO,
KVT
